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2 Aug 2010

Why I am an awesome parent – my new parenting philosophy

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Ellen chillin in my hammock

ideal parenting position

A male friend of mine sent a group email with the MOST fabulous article this week about ‘idle parenting’. It sparked much comment and a whole new language. The opening sentence of the article by my new hero Tom Hodgkinson sums up the whole concept:

Cancel all clubs, ditch the after-school activities and leave those kids alone.

In other brilliant highlights, the article includes gems such as:

a lazy parent is a good parent

A lot can be achieved by lying in bed. Simply by doing nothing, you can train children to do useful things.

My kids are happy because we’re happy.” Do not suffer. Enjoy your life. 

I had no idea that I was already subscribing to such a widespread and legitimate* child raising methodology. But I am loving it.  Read more...

2 August, 2010 at 23:35 by Kate

Tags: babies, Baby, baby care, child, children, family, father, humour, husband, idle parenting, mother, Nursery, parenting, tantrums, Toddler
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 12 - 18 months, 18 months to 2 years, 2 to 3 years old, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Personal stories, Toddler, newborn | 4 Comments »

20 Jul 2010

The big child raising issues. Or how to annoy your husband in the middle of the night.

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P2190381Do you worry about your children much? I mean clearly, crossing the road, not jumping into the pool or licking other people’s dogs – the things we all worry about. But I am talking about the really big issues. Those that keep us awake at night.

Sometimes I think I am doing aok – I have a nice little pigeon pair (what on EARTH does that mean by the way? And as an aside, I got a lot of congratulations on the birth of daughter.  To which I of course blushed and looked suitably proud and modest. Like I had ANYTHING to do with it. Except of course my secret girl making potion sprinkled liberally on husband while sleeping.) . Anyway, a nice little pair who are occasionally well behaved and haven’t set fire to anything in months.  Read more...

20 July, 2010 at 0:31 by Kate

Tags: babies, Baby, baby care, baby classes, baby health, birth, book, child, children, family, father, health, humour, london, mother, newborn, parenting, tantrums, Toddler
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Personal stories, newborn | 2 Comments »

5 Jul 2010

The post about what to give when you’re not giving flowers

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Roses in NYC

For the love of god, NO.

 There are only so many flowers a person needs. Honestly. And this goes for sick people, as well as new mothers. Firstly, who has fourteen vases in the right shape and colour for fourteen different bunches? Secondly, who has fourteen mantelpieces to put them on? And thirdly, umm, who needs that many flowers? But who has the time to think of clever and thoughtful yet awesome value presents for people these days? What with full on jobs or full on children or full on both, you need some help. And they don’t call me Helpful Harriet for nothing. Actually, no one calls me Helpful Harriet but I am hoping if I use it enough, it will catch on. So here are some suggestions. Some of them might also be useful for someone who is coping with an illness, a bereavement, a break-up or a general rough time. You are welcome.

The gift of time  Read more...

5 July, 2010 at 23:03 by Kate

Tags: advice, Baby, birth, father, flowers, Food and recipes, gifts, hampers, humour, husband, mother, mums-to-be, newborn, parenting, presents
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Food and recipes, Other, newborn | 3 Comments »

1 Jul 2010

Björn it Up Baby

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Baby Bjorn Babysitter Balance

I’ll admit that I like Baby Björn branding.  It’s not just the clever word play, it’s that it also makes me think of Björn Borg and I can’t help but think that a little bit of his retro cool might rub off on me if I buy something from Baby Björn*. It’s his general coolness I’m aspiring to you understand, not his wardrobe at the peak of his fame – I’m not going to start wearing tight white shorts, long socks and terri towelling headbands.  Though I don’t doubt there are some very fashionable people that could carry that off.  I just don’t have the legs for it. Or the hair.

But I drew the line at the 80 plus euro for a baby chair/baby sitter/bouncing cradle.   I remembered the metal frame strung with some slightly flexible material that people used from my youth and it didn’t seem necessary to buy an expensive, branded version.  There must be dozens of alternatives I assumed. They’re so simple.  Well, actually not.  Read more...

1 July, 2010 at 21:47 by Jacqui

Tags: baby care, baby chair, baby equipment, baby products, child, child-friendly, infant, product, product review, review
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Product reviews, baby equipment, newborn | 4 Comments »

20 Jun 2010

Recovering from the ‘other kind’ of birth

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Malibu being washed

It does not take this many openings - I swear.

I am a small-time c-section veteran, having got two babies up and out ‘through the sun roof’. Not on my own you understand – there were a few doctors and nurses, but basically I am tough and brave. As an obsessive planner, the second time round when I knew I was having another one, I did some serious research. I also bought a lot of unnecessary gear and freaked out a lot. Even if you’re planning the most natural of natural births, stuff happens sometimes and it always pays to freak out in advance. Oh wait – is that right? Anyway, based on absolutely no medical experience whatsoever (although I have watched a LOT of Gray’s Anatomy which is pretty much the same thing), here are my personal top tips for recovering from a c-section:  Read more...

20 June, 2010 at 23:47 by Kate

Tags: babies, Baby, baby care, birth, c-section, caesarian, Child birth, father, hospital, humour, midwife, mother, mums-to-be, newborn, NHS, operation, parenting, pre-mama, pre-natal, Pregnancy, pregnant, recovery
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Breastfeeding, Personal stories, Pregnancy, newborn | 7 Comments »

1 Jun 2010

And somewhere along the line I fell in love

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Summer Love

ALERT: TOTALLY SOPPY POST COMING UP. AVERT EYES IF NECESSARY

So you know how all those movies and TV shows and chicklit books describe the moment you meet your baby and you fall instantly in love? Completely and utterly, beside yourself immediately, in love? If you don’t know those books and TV shows and movies then good on you, you probably spend your time reading worthy, didactic tomes about apartheid in South Africa and tutoring the underprivileged (which begs the question about why you are reading this blog, but we’ll take anyone).

Anyway, you know that instant love feeling? Well, nope. Not me.

When number one came along, sure I felt protective. He was also very cute (massive head notwithstanding) and I was keen to look after him the best I possibly could. We spent hours marvelling at the fact that we had MADE THAT LIMB. I know, the first people EVER to create life – I know how clever we are. But overwhelming, tear inducing love at first sight? Nope. Am I weird?  Read more...

1 June, 2010 at 23:23 by Kate

Tags: Baby, Baby Love, birth, child, Child birth, children, family, love, mother, mums-to-be, newborn, parenting, post natal, pre-mama, pub
Posted in Baby, Personal stories, Pregnancy, newborn | 4 Comments »

17 May 2010

Gina Ford – the case FOR.

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fire21

Do not set one of those up in your back garden to burn books. This would be weird.

Oh my god, my pulse is racing, my heart is beating faster and I can hear Jacqui yelling from Madrid. It’s that time. Time for the post I have been thinking about since we started the blog. The Dame Gina Ford post.

If you’ve had a child in the past ten odd years in the UK or Australia, you’d have to be a bit lacking in eyes and/or ears to have missed one of her books on the parenting bookshelves, seen referenece to her methods on the internet or heard mention of her routines from other parents. The most popular book is The Very Contented Baby, but there are various follow-ups including The Contented Baby with Toddler.

At the outset, I need to divulge something that might already be obvious – I love Gina. There, I’ve said it. It’s out there. Let the stabbings commence and the bags full of poo start arriving on our doorstep, but it is true – her methods have worked like an incredible charm for our family and Gina (or The Big G (TBG) as we prefer to call her) rules the child routine roost around at our pad.  Read more...

17 May, 2010 at 23:32 by Kate

Tags: Baby, baby care, baby classes, birth, book, child, children, family, Gina Ford, humour, husband, mother, mums-to-be, newborn, parenting, pub, sleep, tantrums, Toddler
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 2 to 3 years old, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Book Review, Breastfeeding, Other, Personal stories, Pregnancy, Product reviews, newborn | 3 Comments »

3 May 2010

By popular demand – THE BABY LIST. Essentials and almost essentials to buy.

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Voldemort should see a dentist

This is like a picture of me at the dentist. I know - bad hair day.

Ages ago I wrote a post about baby things I had bought that I had wasted money on. I made a rash promise to post my spreadsheet of things that you SHOULD buy.  Four months later I am coming good with my promise. I know. I’m reliable like that. You should hear my promises to my dentist – they are nothing short of inspiring and involve trips to hygienists, dental floss and 45 degree brushing angles.

Anyway, I digress.  I know that interesting dentistry anecdotes is a post in itself but baby stuff I promised and baby stuff you shall have. There are many many things to buy when you are having a baby. And many many shops and online stores from which to buy these essentials. I say essentials. In actual fact, apart from a cot, a pram and some clothes, you’d be hard pressed to say anything was truly essential. But we are what we are. Well, actually, I am what I am. You may well be a far more worthy and green type person who buys the minimum, recycles stuff, freecycles it back into the community and is generally a better, kinder and more annoying person than me. If you are, can I suggest you stop reading? I think you will not enjoy my list of essentials.  Read more...

3 May, 2010 at 21:53 by Kate

Tags: Baby, baby care, baby equipment, baby essentials, baby gear, birth, child, Child birth, child-friendly, children, clothing, family, father, humour, husband, mother, mums-to-be, nesting, newborn, Nursery, parenting, pre-mama, pre-natal, Pregnancy, pregnant, Toddler
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 12 - 18 months, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Breastfeeding, Nursery, Online Shopping, Pregnancy, Product reviews, Toddler, baby equipment, newborn | 4 Comments »

28 Apr 2010

What to think about when buying your baby monitor

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Babyology reported recently on the new concept-stage monitor in the works by Danish company Sikker. Monitors are going stellar with monitorisation of the baby´s body temperature and heart rate rather than just old sound and movement.

But what do you actually need out of a baby monitor?  Read more...

28 April, 2010 at 12:20 by Jacqui

Tags: baby care, baby equipment, baby monitors, sound and movement monitors
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Product reviews, baby equipment, newborn | 4 Comments »

12 Apr 2010

Parenting Skills – the top five. Which include shopping.

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Lily Allen

I have not taken children to a concert yet. But I imagine I would be quite good at it.


I am not good at games. I don’t like making crowns. Or playing trains. Or pretending to eat belly-button chocolate (don’t ask, it’s a family thing). I imagine I will be rubbish at watching children’s sporting matches, as I have a tendency to drift off when balls start flying around in front of me. I also dislike taking my children out to lunch, playing in the park and speaking baby talk to newborns.  However, I do have some parenting skills of which I am proud. Some may say weirdly proud — I would just say proud.

1. I am an EXCELLENT story reader. I give it everything I have got — whether it’s pathos, humour, kindness or poignancy (not a commonly required emotion in board books, but you never know) — I can carry it off. I have been known to receive a small round of applause at the end of Dig Dig Digging and if you thought you couldn’t eke out a tear from a 2 year old at a rendition of The Very Hungry Caterpillar, then you were wrong.  Read more...

12 April, 2010 at 22:15 by Kate

Tags: Baby, baby care, books, child, child-friendly, children, Food and recipes, humour, husband, mother, newborn, nursery rhymes, parenting, park, skills, stories, story-telling, Toddler
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 12 - 18 months, 18 months to 2 years, 2 to 3 years old, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Food and recipes, Personal stories, Toddler, newborn | 7 Comments »

16 Feb 2010

Family friendly chic resorts – an urban myth?

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these are my feet. Really.

OK, I know holiday reviews of places that you are unlikely to go are fairly annoying. (Ooh ooh, look at me and my awesome holiday – whatEVER). But last year we went on a family holiday which had some serious advantages, so I thought I would highlight some of them as I think they are worth looking out for in any family venue.

I should start by saying that a ‘family resort’ is my idea of hell. Visions of  snotty nosed screaming children running amok, primary coloured laminex surfaces and heinous buffet meals. But last year we were seriously in need of some time off and wanted the lowest fuss holiday ever.  We got it in the form of the Sani Resort in Greece. If you aren’t able to kick it sans kids in St Barts (our next holiday. Probably. Well, depends if you ask me or the Captain), then this kind of place is a good way to do it in style with the little tackers.  Read more...

  • Can I recommend TripAdvisoras a seriously awesome place to research accommodation? It’s based on reviews from actual guests – sometimes hundreds or even thousands of them and I have used it a dozen times now, and have been satisfied each time.
16 February, 2010 at 0:37 by Kate

Posted in Baby, Toddler, Venue Reviews, newborn, travel | 3 Comments »

4 Feb 2010

Make your own personalised word cloud canvas

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I stumbled across website wordle.net a few months ago. Wordle lets you create your own word cloud image.  I have been pondering ever since what a great gift it would be to use it to create a unique canvas for your baby’s room, or as a gift for, well, anyone. Or maybe you just want one for your own living room.

You can create your own word cloud image on wordle by entering a list of words and then changing the font, colours and the way the words are arranged.  The image is yours to use as you wish, so you can save the file you’ve created and have it printed on canvas.  (Google “print on canvas” and you’ll find any number of sites that will print your image on canvas and send it to you.  Assuming you don’t live in Tristan da Cunha*).

 Read more...

4 February, 2010 at 16:16 by Jacqui

Tags: Baby, canvas, decoration, gift ideas, home, kids, nesting, Nursery, personalised products, printed canvas
Posted in Baby, Decorating, Nursery, Online Shopping, Product reviews, newborn | 1 Comment »

19 Jan 2010

Party on Parents, the Babyphone iphone application is your portable baby sensor

Hold on to your hats iphone fans, I may have found the most useful iphone application ever.  Well, let’s not forget about Total Baby, which is still going strong for me, but let’s just say I’m at least as excited as I was when I discovered that trusty application.  My latest discovery is the BabyPhone iphone app, which, in the briefest of explanations, let’s you monitor your baby with your iphone – calling or emailing another designated phone number (or email) when it senses your baby crying or moving.  It works; I’ve already tested it on the Christmas, New Year party circuit.  Quite simply, it’s genius.

Koolistov BabyPhone iphone application, Activiation Screen

Koolistov BabyPhone iphone application, Activiation Screen

No more popping in and out of the party/dining room every five seconds to see if your precious one is still sleeping peacefully in the room where you’ve left him or her, as opposed to the hysterical crying you’re constantly imagining could be going on unnoticed and unattended.  No more pretending to listen to conversations and appear relaxed when you’re actually wound up like a rubber band trying to separate the sounds of voices from what could possibly be a cry from the distant room.  No more ducking in and out of the party to plaster your ear against the door or opening the door only to find the baby was sleeping… until you opened the door.  Read more...

19 January, 2010 at 15:58 by Jacqui

Tags: baby monitor, baby products, Babyphone, iphone, iphone apps, Koolistov, parent hacks
Posted in 0 - 6 months, 6 - 12 months, Baby, Product reviews, Websites & Technology, baby equipment, newborn | No Comments »

18 Jan 2010

The first-time parent newborn experience (with Breastfeeding in starring role)

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Well, well, didn’t Kate’s newborn experience sound nice what with all the sleeping through, high fiving and apparently oodles of downtime it’s given her.  I’m pretty sure there were butterflies fluttering over the flowers on her windowsill and birds chirping from the water spout as she wrote that post from her writing desk overlooking a Provence garden.  Good grief woman. Have you no mercy for the less fortunate?

Lots of down time? Really? Don’t worry readers who were wondering what happened to their daytime TV viewing opportunities.  And heads up those who think they’re in for a cruisey time.  Because the force may be strong with Yoda (aka  Kate) but it’s not easy to use the force from the get go – that is, from the moment your first little bundle of joy enters this world.

Let me talk you through a typical day with a newborn, one made up of a seemingly never ending cycle of feeding, crying and not all that much sleeping.

baby kai

Newborn sleeping: if you move your finger the baby WILL wake up

Creative Commons License photo credit: Jon Ovington

Feed  Read more...

18 January, 2010 at 9:31 by Jacqui

Tags: baby crying, Baby Love, Gina Ford, new parents, newborn, Robin Barker
Posted in Baby, Breastfeeding, Personal stories, newborn | 3 Comments »

10 Jan 2010

Things I forgot about having a newborn – part two

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Union Square - Yoda

This is me.

For those of you who didn’t read my earlier brilliant analysis – here is a link.  I almost forgot to write a second part. Yes, I do see the irony in that. (Is that actually irony? In amongst the whole Alanis Morisette irony debacle I think I actually forgot the real meaning). Anyhoo, I’m four months in now and still my brain is remembering things that I had forgotten. Call it baby brain, call it Mother Nature’s insidious way of getting you to have another one, call it my memory was never that good to start with. Whatever, here are some more…

1.  If you are a freakish nerd trying to get your beloved child into a routine, they are extremely difficult to keep awake for soooooo long. And then suddenly one day you realise you haven’t had to walk them outside all day and they’ve been playing on their mat happily for half an hour without passing out arms up and legs akimbo. It’s about this stage you can start to really get into day time telly. Just don’t get sprung by your husband watching it with a bag of crisps on the couch and the baby on their playmat in the corner. What? No, didn’t happen to me. I hate TV. And crisps. Mmmmmmcrisps.  Read more...

10 January, 2010 at 23:05 by Kate

Tags: Baby, baby brain, baby care, baby routine, birth, child, Child birth, hello magazine, humour, husband, mother, new baby, newborn, Nursery, routine, sleep, yoda
Posted in Baby, Breastfeeding, Personal stories, newborn | 4 Comments »

1 Jan 2010

Sleep training – for mothers

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- evil inside -OK, here’s my situation. My mummy has had me for almost seven months. The first few months were great — I cried, she picked me up and fed me, anytime, day or night. Then something happened. Over the last few weeks, she has been trying to STTN (sleep through the night). At first, I thought it was just a phase, but it is only getting worse. I’ve talked to other babies, and it seems like it’s pretty common after mummies have had us for around six months. Here’s the thing: these mummies don’t really NEED to sleep. It’s just a habit. Many of them have had over 30 years to sleep — they just don’t need it anymore. So I am implementing a plan. I call it the Crybaby Shuffle. It goes like this:

Night 1 – cry every three hours until you get fed. I know, it’s hard. It’s hard to see your mummy upset over your crying. Just keep reminding yourself, it’s for her own good.

Night 2 – cry every two hours until you get fed.

Night 3 – every hour.  Read more...

1 January, 2010 at 22:33 by Kate

Tags: Baby, baby care, baby sleeping, controlled crying, dummy, sleep, sleep training, sleeping
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, newborn | 2 Comments »

20 Dec 2009

Things I have wasted money on

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Proud parents
If you ask my husband — most of my wardrobe, half the bathroom cabinet, all of my top drawer, the spice cupboard, the bottom three shelves of the bookshelf and everything in my half of the CD rack — falls into this category. But for the purposes of this post I will keep it to Items I Have Bought for Children or Childbearing Purposes. Also known as Things Kate’s Friends Should Have Told Her.  Read more...

20 December, 2009 at 23:08 by Kate

Tags: angelina jolie, Baby, baby bath, baby bottle, baby care, baby chair, baby equipment, baby needs, birth, bottle, bouncer, breast pads, child, Child birth, classes pregnant mums, hooded towel, mother, mums-to-be, nappy, nappybag, nesting, newborn, Nursery, port-a-cot, portable cot, portacot, pre-mama, pre-natal, Pregnancy, pregnant, storksak, swinging chair, temperature guage
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Pregnancy, Product reviews, baby equipment, newborn | 4 Comments »

10 Dec 2009

Truly awesome newborn present

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I have just received a gift from my cousin for the recent birth of my first baby.  I opened the package to see a slightly tattered and dog eared edition of Graeme Base’s “The Eleventh Hour”.

The Eleventh Hour by Graeme Base

The Eleventh Hour by Graeme Base

It’s a wonderful, beautifully illustrated book with a captivating story in the form of a rhyme, including a who-dunnit mystery for the reader to solve.

But what makes this present really special is that this book was first given to my little sister, 21 years ago.  My mother then gave the book to my cousin’s younger sister and then each of my cousin’s three children in turn have enjoyed the book being read to them hundreds of times.  And now I have the book for my own child to enjoy.  In it my gorgeous cousin has written an inscription to my little baby wishing him the same joy it has brought to all the children who’s sticky fingers and eager eyes have absorbed its pages before him. It’s a beautiful thing to see that list of names in the inscription.

I can’t wait to give it to my little sister for her first child, already on it’s way, so that the book will have come full circle.  Read more...

10 December, 2009 at 20:41 by Jacqui

Tags: book, christmas, present
Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Personal stories, Product reviews, newborn | 2 Comments »

26 Nov 2009

Pram, stroller, buggy warmer bag, footmuff whatsits

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The NASA certified Outlast Snuggle Bag from Pushchairs.co.uk

The NASA certified Outlast Snuggle Bag from Pushchairs.co.uk

For those of you coming into the colder months, if you don’t have a stroller bag or fleece you may already be tiring of putting on and removing three layers of clothing each time you step outdoors and return.  And you know how much babies love to get in and out of clothing.  About as much as a cat likes to be bathed.

So I can highly recommend investing in a stroller bag/buggy sleeping bag/footmuff/pram-thingy-that-goes-by-infinite-names.  You’ll avoid the whole layering trauma and keep your baby warm and comfortable for each outing.  They have places for the safety straps to go through so they stay in place and keep your baby in place too.  So what are the options? Naturally they range from expensive to more affordable.

You’ll probably find that your pram/buggy/stroller will sell some form of fleece as an accessory to the pram.  However, we’ve found there are often better options and I’ve put together some suggestions ranging from more expensive to reasonable, but all of them, in my opinion, good value.  Read more...

26 November, 2009 at 16:45 by Jacqui

Posted in 0 - 6 months, Baby, Online Shopping, Product reviews, baby equipment, newborn | 1 Comment »

23 Nov 2009

More top tips before having a baby including great things to buy

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The surveying ladies...

This is not me interviewing my mates.

OK, further to yesterday’s top tips from my mates, here is the second part of my scientific research project…

What did you wish you had done in the early days?  Read more...

  • Travelled more when he was small!  We didn’t take any weekend breaks which are so much easier before the wee one starts to want to move around.
  • Taken more holidays – they are much easier to travel with when they are small.
  • Written down the dates of her key milestones (crawling, sitting, walking) etc.  I’ve already forgotten a lot of them.
  • Printed off photos and started an album straight away, kept a record of milestones and videoed the first seven months as only got the camera out at 8 months.
  • Had baby Panadol in the house after the first immunisation. Big mistake!
  • Not wished the time away. I look back and wonder where the various stages have gone.
  • Relaxed and gone with the flow! They are only tiny for such a short time so I wish I had felt that I didn’t have to be doing something all the time.
  • Got more stuff in the freezer for post-baby.
23 November, 2009 at 20:41 by Kate

Tags: Baby, humour, mother, mums-to-be, nesting, newborn, pre-mama, pre-natal, Pregnancy, pregnant
Posted in Baby, Online Shopping, Personal stories, Pregnancy, Product reviews, newborn | 2 Comments »

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